UNCLASSIFIED// ROUTINE R 141538Z DEC 21 MID200001322769U FM SECNAV WASHINGTON DC TO ALNAV INFO SECNAV WASHINGTON DC CNO WASHINGTON DC CMC WASHINGTON DC BT UNCLAS ALNAV 085/21 MSGID/GENADMIN/SECNAV WASHINGTON DC/-/DEC// SUBJ/BUILDING AND MAINTAINING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON// POC/MS. A. GOLDSTEIN/DON SAPRO/LOC: WASH DC/TEL: (703) 693-0223// RMKS/1. The holiday season is a time of family, when we gather with our loved ones, take stock of the past year, and set intentions for the year to come. We celebrate numerous cultural and spiritual traditions with shared values of community and togetherness. We renew our connections and focus on our emotional and spiritual well-being. The holiday season is also a time of profound vulnerability. The expectations of military life can create stressors that affect us and our loved ones. In addition, many members of our force have experienced trauma before and during their service. The holiday season may remind us of those we have lost, how our lives have changed, and of family we are separated from. This time of year is also ideal to build cohesion, trust and esprit de corps, and remind our fellow Sailors, Marines, and civilian employees that they are valued members of our force. Whether we are ashore this year with our loved ones, or forward deployed standing the watch, we all share the chosen family of the Navy-Marine Corps Team. This year, I am directing Navy and Marine Corps leaders at all levels to gather their teams for small group discussions focused on promoting healthy relationships and mental well-being. We must promote a culture where seeking help is viewed as the sign of strength that it is. Leaders should proactively and routinely engage with their Sailors, Marines, and civilian employees about personal and often difficult topics. Prior to dismissing units for special liberty prior to the Christmas holiday, I am directing Commanders to devote at least one hour to team-building exercises, followed by one-on-one discussions with each Sailor, Marine, and civilian to emphasize self-care and to reach out if help is needed. Leaders are encouraged to use their discretion to delegate these activities to be held at the lowest appropriate level. I also encourage you to promote these trust-building small unit discussions throughout the year. Leaders are also encouraged to use their best judgment for implementing this guidance. The Department of the Navy (DON) has provided resources at https ://www.secnav.navy.mil/sapro/Pages/Resource.aspx which are intended to facilitate your discussions. Finally, I want to reiterate that there is No Wrong Door in the DON for Sailors, Marines, and civilian employees to get the help they need. Mental health professionals, chaplains, family counselors, and other support professionals are here for you. Mental health services are available across the globe at military medical treatment facilities, embedded within operational units, and available within our local communities. Resources are available via the Military Crisis Line at 1-800-273-8255, Military One Source at 1-800-342-9647, and at VA Vet Centers at 1-877-WAR-VETS. For civilian employees, the DON Civilian Employee Assistance Program is available at 1- 844-366 -2327. Information about suicide prevention is also available at https ://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention. 2. Released by the Honorable Carlos Del Toro, Secretary of the Navy.// BT #0001 NNNN UNCLASSIFIED//